
Photo by Rita J. Egan
I was thinking about how music has always been my haven, with certain singers and bands brightening my life, more specifically boy bands.
Recently, a few friends and I went to Las Vegas to see the New Kids on the Block residency. One night during the trip, we talked about how surprised we are when people ask, “How could you see a performer repeatedly in concert?”
Why do we see the same artist in concert? It’s kind of like asking, “Why watch the same team play?” or “Why rewatch a favorite movie or show?”
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I’m not quite sure what the answer is as far as watching films or television shows or going to root for your favorite team time and time again, but I could tell you why I keep showing up for some of my favorite performers, such as New Kids on the Block and Ricky Martin. For one, every tour and even show is different. I’m not in the habit of going to multiple concerts during one tour, but I know people who have, and even a single show within a tour can be different. It depends on the audience. Maybe an artist added a song based on the location or the mood they were in, or you missed something at a prior show. Maybe you were distracted by being too busy taking photos and video, and you need a second or even third time to take in the concert fully.
There’s also something about a live concert. It’s a break from the everyday and responsibilities for a couple of hours. Fans get to enjoy music without interruption. When we go see somebody we admired when we were younger, sometimes it can bring us back in time, not only when we were free of responsibility, but simply free of anxieties, stressors, and all the other nonsense that comes with being an adult.
Most of all, it’s getting together with other people who, no matter their religion, political affiliation, state, or country of origin, are there for a good time. They want to enjoy the music and maybe even dance. Nowadays, being able to share an experience with people where you are there to support an entertainer and have some positive interactions is a welcome relief from a life that sometimes feels like it’s spent 24/7 in front of a screen, whether on a work computer or on our phones.
When you truly admire an artist, you’re going to come out and support them, just like people come out and support their favorite teams. Sure, every sports game could be different, but for people who aren’t into sports, they could easily say to sports enthusiasts, “Once you see them play in person once, why do you have to see them again? You get the idea.” Yet, music lovers aren’t going to ask it, because we get the dedication.
Every game is different. Every concert is different. Most of all, life would be incredibly bland and difficult to bear if we didn’t break it up sometimes with moments of joy, getting together with like-minded friends, and meeting new people who get you.
So, yes, there are a few entertainers I will see again and again. I hope, God willing, I will continue to be able to see New Kids on the Block, Ricky Martin, and so many others even when I’m in my 80s, even if it takes a cane, wheelchair, or rollator to get up the aisle. I plan to be in the audience into my old age, because that’s what I’m into. Music is what I’m interested in, and it doesn’t matter who understands or who doesn’t. This is my life, and music has brought me immense joy and experiences I can’t imagine I would have had if it weren’t for my favorite artists. And to them, I say, “Thank you for the music and the beautiful memories that I will cherish forever.”

















